YOU'VE GOT A TYPE
There are four systems that women tend to use to move through
the world when they're trying to be good, needed, loved, accepted and safe.
You're probably really good at one of them, but is it good for you?
THE RULE FOLLOWER
THE EMOTIONAL SUPPORT HUMAN
THE ONE WOMAN SHOW
THE PROFESSIONAL OVERTHINKER
I'M DEVYN
I've made a career out of listening to women.
Thousands of anonymous interviews,
hundreds of private conversations and more than a decade
discussing everything we have been told not to talk about
at the dinner table have led me to notice a few patterns.
Namely, that we're more similar than we realize.
The details change, but the systems
that we create to survive don't.
As women, we learn to be good, useful, to handle ourselves,
think three steps ahead...we get so good at these things
that eventually they stop feeling like strategies and start feeling
like personalities.
But who you learned to be and who you actually are
aren’t necessarily the same woman and at some point,
"This is just who I am." Deserves to be questioned.
MY OTHER WORK
There are four systems that women tend to use to move through
the world when they're trying to be good, needed, loved, accepted and safe.
You're probably really good at one of them, but is it good for you?
